The Ball Gown, The Duck Slippers, and the 16-Year Squiggle

At 20, I lived in a grotty flat above a kebab shop.

I was studying for my MChem.

The night of the Chemistry ball, I stood washing up in a ball gown wearing bright yellow duck slippers. And apparently, I had a matching washing up bowl 😉. See the image on LinkedIn here.

The timeline continued…

At 21: Took 1 of 6 spots on Croda’s graduate development programme.
At 22: Quit to study Medicine, then failed to get a place.
At 23–26: Tried research business management and trained as a science teacher. None of it felt right.
At 26: Started a PhD. Had panic attacks.
At 29: Finished the PhD, started a postdoc, then fell pregnant two weeks later.
At 33: Started a spin-out company.
At 35: Quit paid employment on maternity leave.
At 36: Qualified as a coach and started my business.
At 41: Published my bestselling book.
At 43: Spoke on international stages and started writing my second book.
From the outside, it might look like a squiggly mess.
Too many pivots, restarts, and uncertainty.
But from the inside? Each step was a movement towards fulfilment and alignment.

One question

Have you found your thing yet?

The work that gives you energy and fulfilment and allows you to be fully self-expressed.Because when you do, everything will take off for you.

One insight

Sometimes the reason you feel stuck is because you are trying to force alignment from a place of fear.

Fear of wasting your experience, how the CV will look, of disappointing people, starting again, or that fulfilment is a nice to have.

But fulfilment matters.

You are going to spend thousands of hours working.

You deserve more than to simply survive it.

One action

Reflect: What part of my career am I tolerating because I no longer believe something better is possible?

 

Don’t let go of that question.

Keep opening up,

Hannah

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